Jewish Life Cycle

  • 1 CE

    Birth

    Jewish culture considers a child born completely devoid of sin. The father is given the option to read from a scripture at the synagogue (aliyah), and that is when a girl is named. A boy is named during the Brit Milah (ritual circumcision).
  • 12

    Bat Mitzvah

    When a girl becomes 12 years old she becomes accountable for her actions. They can now participate in all aspects of Jewish life. Father gives thanks to God that he is no longer punished for the child's sins. Usually held on the first Sabbath after the child's birthday.
  • 13

    Bar Mitzvah

    When a boy becomes 13 years old he becomes accountable for his actions. They can now participate in all aspects of Jewish life. Father gives thanks to God that he is no longer punished for the child's sins. Usually held on the first Sabbath after the child's birthday. If a boy is not yet circumcised, this is done then.
  • Period: 13 to 30

    Marriage

    The age between puberty and 20 is considered the ideal time to be married. It is viewed as a contractual bond commanded by God in which a man and a woman come together to create a relationship involving God. The sole purpose is not procreation, but children are expected. It is the merging of two souls into one, as a person is not considered complete until they are married
  • 80

    Death

    Death is not considered a tragedy. It is part of God's plan, and their souls will continue into the afterlife. Mourning practices are extensive but not from fear or distaste of death, but to comfort the living and respect the dead. The body is laid on the floor with closed eyes, surrounded by candles. Some people sit with the dead (shomerin) and they cannot eat, drink or command people to show respect. Bodies are considered unclean, and people must wash their hands after being near them.